Obese is not a disease. I never want to lose some weight as only if I am healthy. I'm healthy and happy in my fat body. I eat healthy (lots of fruits and veggies, limit the junk, drink my water) and I exercise regularly. Also we should join some bbw community, which makes us feel self-esteemed and exchange thoughts with other overweight people. Pluscupid.com is a good choice, which has the largest bbw blogs and forums. Here is the link to the forum:
http://www.pluscupid.com/forums